Top Ten
Excuses Of Muslim Women Who Don't Wear Hijab And
Their Obvious Weaknesses
"Women Want GENDER EQUALITY – FINE.
Then As a FIRST Step We Need to Implement EQUAL
Representation of BOTH
Men & Women in the Armed
Forces of a Country Before We Go Any Further.
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& Its Interests MUST Take Precedence Over
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By Dr. Huwayda Ismaeel
Rendered into English from Al-Bayaan Magazine
Get on the train of repentance my sister,
before it passes by your station. Deeply
consider my sister, what is happening today
before tomorrow comes. Think, my sister -
starting now.
All praise is due to Allah
Ta`ala as is deserved by His Majesty and Great
Power. I send prayers and ask for blessings
upon His Noble Messenger who drew the path for
us to the pleasure of Allah and His Jannah.
This path is a straight one that is surrounded
by virtue from all sides and attends to the
best moral characteristics, which are
increased by the clothing of purity,
concealment, and chastity. It is the path trod
by the two halves of human society, namely the
man and the woman, toward harmonious
contentment and happiness in this life and the
Hereafter.
This is precisely why the
Protector, the blessed and above all
imperfection, has made wearing hijab an
obligation upon the woman as a safeguard of
her chastity and protection of her honor and
sign of her faith (Iman). It is on account of
this that societies (both Muslim and
non-Muslim) that have distanced themselves
from the way of Allah and deviated from His
straight path are ill societies in need of
treatment that will lead them to recovery and
happiness.
Among the pictures that
point to the distance of society from that
path and that make clear the level of its
deviation and separation from it is the open
spread of women not just uncovering their
faces but enhancing and making a display of
their beauty. We find that, regretfully, this
is commonly manifested in Islamic (Muslim)
society despite the fact Islamic clothing is
also widespread (and available). So then, what
are the reasons that have led to this
digression?
We put this question to a varied group of
women from whom we derived ten major excuses
and upon examination and scrutiny, the frailty
of the excuses became evident to us.Stay with
us dear Muslim sister in these few lines so
that we can know through them the reasons for
turning away from the hijab and then discuss
each:
Excuse One: I'm not yet convinced (of the
necessity) of hijab
.
We then ask this sister two questions:
One: Is she truly convinced of the
correctness of the religion of Islam?
The natural answer is: Yes, she is
convinced, for she responds "Laa ilaaha
illallah!" (There is no God but Allah),
meaning she is convinced of the 'aqeedah, and
then she says: "Muhammadun rasoolullah!"
(Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah), meaning
by that that she is convinced of its
legislation or law (sharee 'ah). Therefore,
she is convinced of Islam as a belief system
and a law by which one governs and rules her
life.
Two: Is the hijab then a part of Islamic
Law (sharee'ah) and an obligation?
If this sister is honest and sincere in her
intention and has looked into the issue as one
who truly wants to know the truth her answer
could only be: "Yes". For Allah
Ta`ala, Whose Divinity (Uloohiyyah) she
believes in has commanded wearing hijab in His
Book (Al-Qur'an); and the noble Prophet, ( 'alaihi
salaat wa salaam) whose message she believes
in, has commanded wearing the hijab in his
sunnah.
What do we call a person who says they
believe in and are content with the
correctness of Islam but who nonetheless does
not do what Allah or His Messenger have
ordered? Certainly they can in no way be
described as those whom Allah speaks of in
this ayah:
The only saying of the faithful believers
when they are called to Allah and His
Messenger to judge between them is that they
say 'we hear and obey' and such are the
successful. [Sura An-Noor 24:51]
In summary: If this sister is convinced of
Islam, how then can she not be convinced of
its orders?
Excuse Two: I am convinced of Islamic dress
but my mother prevents me from wearing it and
if I disobey her I will go to the Fire.
The one who has answered this excuse is the
most noble of Allah's creation, the Messenger
of Allah (sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam) in
concise and comprehensive words of wisdom:
There is no obedience to the created in the
disobedience of Allah. [Ahmed]
The status of parents in Islam, especially
the mother, is a high and elevated one. Indeed
Allah Ta`ala has combined it with the greatest
of matters, worshipping Him and His tawheed,
in many ayah.
He stated: Worship Allah and join none with
Him and do good to parents. [Sura An-Nisaa
4:36] Obedience to parents is not limited
except in one aspect, and that is if they
order to disobedience of Allah. Allah said:
But if they strive with you to make you join
in worship with Me others that of which you
have no knowledge, then obey them not. [Sura
Luqmaan 31:15]
The lack of obedience to them in sinfulness
does not prevent being good to them and kind
treatment of them. Allah said afterward in the
same ayah: But behave with them in the world
kindly.
In summary: How can you obey your mother
and disobey Allah, Who created you and your
mother?
Excuse Three: My position does not allow me
to substitute my dress for Islamic dress.
This sister is either one or the other of
two types: She is sincere and honest, or she
is a slippery liar who desires to make a showy
display of her "hijab" clamoring
with colors to be "in line with the
times" and expensive.
We will begin with an answer to the honest
and sincere sister:
Are you unaware my dear sister, that it is
not permissible for the Muslim woman to leave
her home in any instance unless her clothing
meets the conditions of Islamic hijab (Hijab
shar 'ee) and it is a duty of every Muslim
woman to know what they are? If you have taken
the time and effort to learn so many matters
of this world how then can you be neglectful
of learning those matters, which will save you
from the punishment of Allah and His anger
after death! Does Allah not say: Ask the
people of remembrance (i.e. knowledgeable
scholars) if you do not know. [Sura An-Nahl
16:43]. Learn therefore, the requirements of
proper hijab.
If you must go out, then do so only with
the correct hijab, seeking the pleasure of
Allah and the degradation of Shaitaan. That is
because the corruption brought about by your
going out adorned and "beautified"
is far greater than the matter, which you deem
necessary to go out for.
My dear sister if you are really truthful
in your intention and correctly determined you
will find a thousands hands of good assisting
you and Allah will make the matter easy for
you! Is He not the One Who says: And whoever
fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will
make a way for him to get out (from every
difficulty) and He will provide him from
sources he never could imagine. [Sura At-Talaaq
65:2-3]?
With regards to the 'slippery ' one we say:
Honor
and position is something determined by Allah
Ta`ala and it is not due to embellishment of
clothing and show of colors and keeping up
with the trendsetters. It is rather due to
obedience to Allah and His Messenger (sallallahu
'alaihi wa sallam) and holding to the pure law
of Allah and correct Islamic hijab. Listen to
the words of Allah: Indeed, the most honorable
amongst you are those who are the most pious.
[Sura Al-Hujuraat 49:35]
In summary: Do things in the way of seeking
Allah's pleasure and entering His Jannah and
give less value to the high priced and costly
objects and wealth of this world.
Excuse Four: It is so very hot in my
country and I can't stand it. How could I take
it if I wore the hijab?
Allah gives an example by saying: Say: The
Fire of Hell is more intense in heat if they
only understand. [Sura At-Taubah 9:81]
How can you compare the heat of your land
to the heat of the Hellfire?
Know, my sister, that Shaitaan has trapped
you in one of his feeble ropes to drag you
from the heat of this world to the heat of the
Hellfire. Free yourself from his net and view
the heat of the sun as a favor and not an
affliction especially in that it reminds you
of the intensity of the punishment of Allah
which is many times greater than the heat you
now feel. Return to the order of Allah and
sacrifice this worldly comfort in the way of
following the path of salvation from the
Hellfire about which Allah says: They will
neither feel coolness nor have any drink
except that of boiling water and pus. [Sura
An-Naba ' 78:24-25]
In summary: The Jannah is surrounded by
hardships and toil, while Hellfire is
surrounded by temptations, lusts and desires.
Excuse Five: I'm afraid that if I wear the
hijab I will take it off at another time
because I have seen so many others do so!
To her I say: If everyone was to apply your
logic then they would have left the Deen in
its entirety! They would have left off salaat
because some would be afraid of leaving it
later. They would have left fasting in Ramadan
because so many are afraid of not doing it
later, etc. Haven 't you seen how Shaitaan has
trapped you in his snare again and blocked you
from guidance?
Allah Ta`ala loves continuous obedience
even if it be small or recommended. How about
something that is an absolute obligation like
wearing hijab? The prophet (sallallahu 'alaihi
wa sallam) said: The most beloved deed with
Allah is the consistent one though it is
little. Why haven 't you sought out the causes
leading those people to leave off the hijab so
that you can avoid them and work to keep away
from them? Why haven 't you sought out reasons
and causes to affirm truth and guidance until
you can hold firm to them?
Among these causes is much supplication to
Allah (du'aa) to make the heart firm upon the
Deen as did the prophet (sallallahu 'alaihi wa
sallam). Also is making salaat and having
mindfulness of it as Allah stated: And seek
help in patience and the prayer and truly it
is extremely heavy except for the true
believers in Allah who obey Allah with full
submission and believe in His promise of
Jannah and in His warnings (Al-Khaashi 'oon).
[Sura Al-Baqarah 2:45]
Other cause to put one upon guidance and
truth is adherence to the laws of Islam and
one of them is indeed wearing the hijab. Allah
said: If they had done what they were told, it
would have been better for them and would have
strengthened their faith. [Sura Al-Baqarah
2:66]
In summary: If you hold tight to the causes
of guidance and taste the sweetness of faith
you will not neglect the orders of Allah after
having held to them.
Excuse Six: If I wear the hijab then nobody
will marry me, so I' m going to leave it off
until then.
Any husband, who desires that you be
uncovered and adorned in public in defiance of
and in disobedience to Allah, is not a worthy
husband in the first place. He is a husband
who has no feeling to protect what Allah has
made inviolable, most notably yourself, and he
will not help you in any way to enter Al-Jannah
or escape from the Hellfire. A home, which is
founded upon disobedience to Allah and
provocation of His anger, is fitting that He
decrees misery and hardship for it in this
life and in the Hereafter. As Allah stated:
But whosoever turns away from My reminder
(i.e. neither believes in the Qur'an nor acts
upon its teachings) verily for him is a life
of hardship and We shall raise him up blind on
the Day of Resurrection. [Sura Ta Ha 20:124]
Marriage is a favor and blessing from Allah
to whom He give whom He wills. How many women
who wear hijab (mutahajibah) are in fact
married while many who don 't aren't? If you
were to say that ' My being made-up and
uncovered is a means to reach a pure end,
namely marriage', a pure goal or end is not
attained through impure and corrupt means in
Islam. If the goal is honorable then it must
necessarily be achieved by pure and clean
method. We say the rule in Islam is: The means
are according to the rules of the intended
goals.
In summary: There is no blessing in a
marriage established upon sinfulness and
corruption.
Excuse Seven: I don't wear hijab based on
what Allah says: And proclaim the grace of
your Rabb [Sura Ad-Dhuhaa 93:11] how can I
cover what Allah has blessed me
with
of silky soft hair and captivating beauty?
So this sister of ours adheres to the Book
of Allah and its commands as long as they
coincide with her personal desires and
understanding! She leaves behind those matters
when they don 't please her. If this was not
the case, then why doesn't she follow the
ayah: And do not show off their adornment
except only that which is apparent [Sura An-Noor
24:31] and the statement of Allah subhaanah:
Tell your wives and your daughters and the
women of the believers to draw their cloaks
all over their bodies [Sura Al-Ahzaab 33:59]?
With this statement my sister you have now
made a shari'ah (law) for yourself of what
Allah Ta`ala has strictly forbidden, namely
beautification (at-tabarruj) and uncovering
(as-sufoor), and the reason: Your lack of
wanting to adhere to the order. The greatest
blessing or favor that Allah has bestowed upon
us is that of Iman (faith) and hidaya
(guidance) and among them is the Islamic hijab.
Why then do you not manifest and talk about
this greatest of blessings given to you?
In summary: Is there a greater blessing and
favor upon the woman than guidance and hijab?
Excuse Eight: I know that hijab is
obligatory (waajib), but I will wear it when
Allah guides me to do so.
We ask this sister on what plans or steps
she will undertake until she accepts this
divine guidance? We know that Allah has in His
wisdom made a cause or means for everything.
That is why the sick take medicine to regain
health, and the traveler rides a vehicle or an
animal to reach his destination, and other
limitless examples.
Has this sister of ours seriously
endeavored to seek true guidance and exerted
the proper means to get it such as:
Supplicating Allah sincerely as He stated:
Guide us to the Straight Path. [Sura Al-Faatihah
1:6]; Keeping company with the righteous good
sisters - for they are among the best to
assist her to guidance and to continue to
point her to it until Allah guides her and
increases her guidance and inspires her to
further guidance and taqwaa. She would then
adhere to the orders of Allah and wear the
hijab that the believing women are commanded
to wear.
In summary: If this sister was really
serious about seeking guidance she would have
exerted herself by the proper means to get it.
Excuse Nine: It's not time for that yet. I
'm still too young for wearing hijab. I'll do
it when I get older and after I make Hajj!
The Angel of Death my sister, is visiting
and waiting at your door for the order of
Allah Ta`ala to open it on you at any moment
in your life. Allah said: When their term
comes, neither can they delay it nor can they
advance it an hour (or a moment). [Sura Al-An'aam
7:34]. Death my sister doesn't discriminate
between the young or the old and it may come
while you are in this state of great
sinfulness disobedience, fighting against the
Lord of Honor with your uncovering and
shameless adornment. My sister, you should
race to obedience along with those others who
race to answer the call of Allah ( S.W.T):
Race with one another in hastening towards
forgiveness from your Lord and Paradise the
width whereof is as the width of the heavens
and the earth. [Sura Al-Hadeed 57:21]
Sister, don't forget Allah or He will
forget you by turning His mercy away from you
in this life and the next. You are forgetting
your own soul by not fulfilling the right of
your soul to obey Allah and proper worship of
Him. Allah stated about the hypocrites (Al-Munaafiqoon):
And be not like those who forgot Allah and He
caused them to forget their own selves. [Sura
Al-Hashr 59:19] My sister, wear the hijab in
your young age in opposition to the sinful
deeds because Allah is intense in punishment
and will ask you on the Day of Resurrection
about your youth and every moment of your
life.
In summary: Stop presuming some future
expectation in your life will indeed occur!
How can you guarantee your own life until
tomorrow?
Excuse Ten: I'm afraid that if I wear
Islamic clothing that I 'll be labeled as
belonging to some group or another and I hate
partisanship.
My sisters in Islam, there are only two
parties in Islam, and Allah Almighty in His
Noble Book mentions them both. The first party
is the party of Allah ( S.W.T) that He gives
victory to because of their obedience to His
commands and staying away from what He has
forbidden. The second party is the party of
the accursed Shaitaan (hizbush-Shaitaan),
which disobeys the Most Merciful and increase
corruption in the earth. When you hold tight
to and adhere to the commands of Allah, and
among them are wearing the hijab - you then
become a part of the successful party of
Allah. When you beautify and display your
charms you are riding in the boat of Shaitaan
and his friends and partners from among the
hypocrites and the disbelievers and none worse
could there be as friends.
Don't you see how you are running from
Allah and to the Shaitaan, trading filth for
good? Run instead my sister to Allah and
follow His way: So flee to Allah (from His
Torment to His mercy). Verily I (Muhammad) am
a plain warner to you from Him. [Sura
Adh-Dhaariyaat 51:50] The hijab is a high form
of worship that is not subject to the opinions
of people and their orientations and choices
because the one who legislated it is the Most
Wise Creator.
In summary: In the way of seeking the
pleasure of Allah and in hope of His Mercy and
success in His Jannah and throw the statements
of the devils among people and jinn against
the wall! Hold tight to the legislation of
Allah by your molars and follow the example of
the striving and knowledgeable Mothers of the
Believers and the female companions (radiallahu
'anhum ajma'een).
In Conclusion
Your body is on display in the market of
Shaitaan seducing the hearts of men. The
hairstyles, the tight clothing showing every
detail of your figure, the short dresses
showing off your legs and feet, and the showy,
decorative and fragrant clothing all anger the
Merciful and please the Shaitaan. Every day
that passes while you are in this condition
distances you further from Allah and brings
you closer to Shaitaan. Each day curses and
anger are directed toward you from the heavens
until you repent. Every day brings you closer
to the grave and the Angel of Death is ready
to capture your soul.
Everyone shall taste death. And only on the
Day of Resurrection shall you be paid your
wages in full. And whoever is removed away
from the Hellfire and admitted to Al-Jannah,
is indeed successful. The life of this world
is only the enjoyment of deception (a
deceiving thing). [Sura Aale 'Imraan 3:185]
Get on the train of repentance my sister,
before it passes by your station. Deeply
consider my sister, what is happening today
before tomorrow comes. Think about it, my
sister - Now, before it is too late!
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"For to us will be their return; then it
will be for us to call them to account."
(Holy Quran 88:25-26)